Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Faith—The Space and Freedom

One should have more faith in their partner. These days, I heard ample whines from friends talking bout how their partners are tying them down. This not allowed, that not allowed. Of course certain restrictions are acceptable, but I feel that when those restrictions are changing who you are, then that is not allowed. Mostly, these restrictions are the results of lack of faith in their partner. The more they have less faith in their partner the more they will be doubtful of their partner’s action. Thus, eventually it became a cycle of cause and effect. One should have faith in their partner to allow him/her enough freedom and space. But that does not mean one should be given too much. As you would have already know but never really give it much thought, human tend to forget their ground easily when they know how to fly. I always think ‘moderate’ is too modest a word for such a great word. Everything that we do, have, owned, like, dislike, and etc should be done moderately. Having said that, it means that giving too much space and freedom will make your partner feel left out, while by not giving at all chokes them. Thus, moderation is the key to happiness in a relationship.

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