The Ultimate Courtship

Here is my very first two cents, the ultimate courtship.

Phase 1—Charm to the Max

Goal: Make him/her unconsciously attached and drawn to you by charming him/her to the max.
What to do:
1. Remotely, understand what ever you can about him/her, hobby, likes & dislikes, hot button, soft spots, interest, background, friends. – Reason: to make him/her feel connected to you when you start your charming skill.
2. Flirt and charm him/her with all the knowledge and skills you’ve picked up.*
3. Put her friends on your side – Reason: Win them too and you’ll have higher chances of not failing the charming phase.
4. Finally, ensure that you’ve succeeded before moving to the next stage. To know whether you have succeeded, you’ll need to learn how to read the signs/aura, and body language he/she is emanating.

*Note: methods of charming a guy and a gurl may differ.

Phase 2—Sudden Disappearance
Goal: Make him/her missing you like crazy by disappearing from his/her presence all together suddenly.
What to do:
1. Make an excuse that you’ll need to be away for some time and do not, I repeat DO NOT give the exact time you are coming back, i.e. business trip, holiday with family, or anywhere else that she cannot contact you. – Reason: to make him/her cant stop thinking of you when you are away.
2. Remember: during first phase – the charming, keep yourself mysterious. Never let him/her knows too much about you. This will help your phase 2 to work out even better by making him/her wonder about you and anticipate your return.

Phase 3—Sudden Reappearance
Goal: Surprise him/her by turning up when she least expected
What to do:
1. While you were gone, never stop monitoring what he/she does for the right moment to turn up. Note, this is also to ensure the timing is right so that the magical charm hasn’t disappeared.
2. When turn up, notice his/her reaction to make the next move. If he/she is immensely glad/happy to see you. Bingo, you’ve succeeded and you should make your final move. Otherwise, repeat Phase 1 all together and change tactic OR leave him/her alone and look for new target.

Good Luck!

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